4 Stars
This 670-page tome was shortlisted for the 2025 Booker Prize and I
kept coming across rave reviews so thought I’d read it. It’s a
novel of ideas that demands the reader to engage patiently.
Sonia Shah, an
Indian student in Vermont, hopes to become a writer. Lonely, she
becomes easy prey for Ilan de Toorjen Foss, an arrogant, totally
self-obsessed artist who is a manipulator and abuser. Sonia
eventually escapes but leaves behind an amulet, a treasured gift from
her grandfather. In Delhi meanwhile, her father tries to arrange a
marriage for Sonia with the grandson of a friend.
The intended, Sunny
Bhatia, is an aspiring journalist in New York living with a white
girlfriend, a fact he hides from his widowed, class-obsessed mother
Babita. He returns to India for a visit and, by chance, meets Sonia
after they’ve each rejected their families’ attempts at an
arranged marriage. The rest of the novel focuses on their
relationship which is beset with obstacles. Both of them must also
figure out their own paths in life before setting out on one
together.
As the title clearly
indicates, loneliness is a major theme. Both protagonists experience
isolation living in the U.S. In fact, both feel that isolation is
almost a requirement for success in the West which their families
desperately want for them. India places more value on family while
the West emphasizes individualism. For instance, Sonia and Sunny
list all the tasks that people are expected to do for themselves.
Sonia and Sonny are also looking for a home, a place where they feel
they belong. They feel displaced from their home country, family and
culture, but do not feel accepted in the U.S. either. Of course
living with others does not guarantee that loneliness will be
lacking; Sonia’s mother, for example, leaves an oppressive marriage
and escapes to an isolated cottage.
Sonia and Sunny do
not meet until a third into the novel. The first part concentrates
on Sunny’s relationship with Ulla and Sonia’s, with the older
artist. It is the latter that particularly interested me. Ilan is a
predatory narcissist, a totally despicable person who takes
possession of Sonia’s life. He suppresses her literary ambitions
and leaves her empty and haunted. She must find herself again before
she can move on with her life.
I have a dislike of
magic realism so the use of it in the novel discomfited me. There’s
a vicious dog that makes an appearance several times. A threat, it
emphasizes Sonia’s inner turmoil, but I didn’t find it a
necessary element. There are also recurring motifs of eyes and
mirrors.
I enjoyed the
portrait of contemporary Indian society. The reader sees the
lingering effects of colonialism, the caste system, colourism, and
corruption. I was especially interested in the portrayal of life for
a single woman in India: “A single woman was expected to be
grateful for any scrap that fell her way.” Divisions because of
religion are also shown: “Someone who belonged to a religious
minority had to appear meek and patriotic.”
There is also no
doubt that the novel is well-written. Here’s a description of
Sonia’s reaction to her loneliness: “Because her condition of
winter loneliness had grown acute, and she felt compelled to tell her
most compelling stories so she would be attractive and they could
know each other quickly, profoundly, so she could relieve her
solitude.” The pressure Sunny feels to succeed in America is
compared to the push of people boarding a plane: “Crowds were
trying to squeeze into the doorway past which a few chosen
individuals were allowed to catch their flights, the rest of the
family left ever farther behind. . . . he was pushed on by the
bearing weight of people behind him, feeling their desperation
concentrated upon his shoulders, his back. He carried the terror and
ambition of thousands for the span of time it took to get through the
eye of the needle.”
There are subtle
touches of humour which lighten the predominantly serious mood. For
instance, the mingling of international students searching for
romance is described: “There was a slapstick randomness to these
loves conducted in dozens of languages during movie nights or
ballroom dancing lessons, or in the cafeteria, where everyone went
despite the dullest food in the city in case a potential romance
awaited by the steamed vegetable medley.” At one point, Sunny
meets two brothers on a train; they’re seed breeders and Sunny
wants to interview them, “But to be a journalist you have to win
over the people you meet, and were they going to trust a man who did
not speak to his mother? This violated the laws of the
animal-vegetable-mineral kingdom.”
A novel of ideas,
the book explores loneliness, cultural alienation, and the immigrant
experience, but it also comments on other subjects as well. Love is
examined: “Maybe all you needed was to be loved once. It was too
much to ask to be loved all the way through life, and you could
return to the memory for sustenance. Being loved all the time might
be a curtailment, a redundancy. It was wild and restful to think
without attachment.” The resentment of men is analyzed: “She
recognized it, it was ubiquitous, it was in the air, it was in every
man she’d ever met, that resentment. . . . It was the anger of
being countered, refused, surpassed, denied, not adored enough – or
simply ignored, because hell hath no fury like a man who is not the
center of attention.”
Some of the
commentary is light-hearted but some is scathing. There’s a
discussion of English colonial mentality that struck me: “it
occurred to him that Italy was the Englishman’s first India, their
first scorching sun, swarthy skin, their first garlic and hot temper,
their first people whom they viewed alternately as children and as
savages, charming and suddenly cruel – ultimately baffling.
Perhaps Italy had allowed them to attempt India. This would suggest
Italian charm had some truth to it, or else the English would have
returned to their sunless, un-garlicky island and saved the world the
ruinous empire.”
The book is long,
perhaps too long, with too many minor characters with detailed
backstories. There were certainly times when I wanted a greater
narrative focus with fewer digressions and less philosophizing. I
recommend the book with a caution: readers must be prepared to
invest time, not only because the book is lengthy but because it is
dense and so requires concentration.