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Wednesday, October 17, 2018

Review of AN AMERICAN MARRIAGE by Tayari Jones

4 Stars
Celestial and Roy are a young black couple with a promising future until Roy is wrongfully convicted of rape and sentenced to twelve years.  The book concentrates on their relationship during their separation.   Roy stays focused on his love for his wife while Celestial tries to move forward with her life, helped by her lifelong friend Andre.  When Roy is released, can he and Celestial regain what they lost, what was stolen from them?

The book examines marriage, “a peculiar institution.”  Celestial and Roy have been married for only a year before their lives are torn apart.  Celestial thinks of their marriage as “a fine-spun tapestry, fragile but fixable.  We tore it often and mended it, always with silken thread, lovely but sure to give way.”  Theirs is not like the marriages of their parents:  “Their marriages were cut from less refined but more durable cloth, something like cotton-sack burlap, bound with gray twine.”  Later, she writes to Roy that “our delicate cord . . . has been shredded by your incarceration.”  They are not like his parents who “lived under one roof for more than thirty years . . . grew together and grew up together . . . That’s what a marriage is.  What we have here isn’t a marriage.  A marriage is more than your heart, it’s your life.  And we are not sharing ours.”  Does marriage require togetherness to survive or is Celestial correct in suggesting that her and Roy’s marriage was “a sapling graft that didn’t have time to take”? 

Are modern marriages different because people don’t understand true commitment?  Celestial admits, when thinking or Roy’s parents, “I feel like I’ve been playing at marriage.  That I don’t know what it is to be committed.”   Andre mentions, when listening to some old songs, “Those old cats sang about a kind of devotion long since out of style.”  Is the “’Till death do us part” vow unreasonable, “a recipe for failure”?  How much loyalty can be expected in marriage?  Roy keeps focusing on the fact that Celestial is his wife and hasn’t divorced him, but Andre points out, “’The bottom line is that she doesn’t belong to you.  She never belonged to you.  She was your wife, yeah.  But she didn’t belong to you.’”  Is marriage a necessary institution when “you can’t trust the state to know anything about the truth of people’s lives”?  For Roy, a divorce would be just another decree from a state that wrongfully imprisoned him.  How does one even recognize love when “Human emotion is beyond comprehension, smooth and uninterrupted, like an orb made of blown glass” and when “convenience, habit, comfort, obligation – these are all things that wear the same clothing as love sometimes”? 

Of course, the book tells the story of a marriage that is damaged by the racial injustice that continues to haunt the United States.  While in college, Celestial heard a speech by a black man who had been wrongfully imprisoned for decades, but his story “felt like a lesson from the past, a phantom of Mississippi.  What did it have to do with us, college students . . . ?”  Yet Roy’s education and work ethic do not shield him from wrongful conviction:  he becomes engaged in “a battle older than his father and his father’s father.”  Celestial emphasizes, “’What did Roy do to deserve any of this?  He didn’t do anything but be a black man in the wrong place at the wrong time.  This is basic.’”  Roy’s father-in-law, who calls Roy “’a hostage of the state . . .  a victim of America,’” also argues that “’Accident of birth is the number one predictor of happiness.’”  Roy’s father agrees:  “’That’s your fate as a black man.  Carried by six or judged by twelve.’” 

And there is a warning.  Ray speaks of how prison has changed him:  “Innocent or not, prison changes you, makes you into a convict.”  And Andre realizes, “But someone was going to pay for what happened to Roy, just as Roy paid for what happened to that woman [who was raped].  Someone always pays.  Bullet don’t have nobody’s name on it, that’s what people say. . . . It’s out there, random and deadly, like a tornado.”  Given the incarceration rate of black men in America, these observations are ominous. 

The book is narrated by three characters:  Roy, Celestial and Andre.  Because we are privy to their thoughts, we come to understand their choices, though we might not necessarily agree with them.  Each of them makes mistakes but each is also wronged, so I found it impossible to pick sides.  At different times, I was angry with each one and sad for each. 

This is a very thought-provoking novel, one that is very relevant given how even the contemporary American justice system seems biased against blacks.  And should Canadians feel complacent, they need only replace black with indigenous.

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